You're in a committed relationship, married or involved on an exclusive basis. You've thought everything was glorious. Or, at least as glorious as it gets -- all relationships have some rough spots.
It seems that you're always fighting. Or he just doesn't act like himself anymore. He doesn't like his job. He wants to sell the house and get a little place in the mountains or a sailboat and sail to the islands. You're too fat or too thin or too short or too tall. He doesn't like being home. He wants a sportier car. He changes his hair style, starts a diet and joins the local gym. He says his clothes are too old for him. He says you and he have grown apart. He needs time to think about 'things.' He wants space. He wants something but he doesn't know what. He wants a divorce.
If he's between the ages of 35 and 50, your man is blazing a trail through male midlife - he's having a crisis.
We're not talking about the man who has always been a womanizer, a schemer or generally not the nicest person in the world. We are talking about the man who has up to this point assumed responsibility and been the person you could depend upon in time of need.
What you must keep in mind is that he really doesn't understand what he's doing, he isn't deliberately hurting you he just knows that something is wrong in his life and he's searching for the answers.
Of course you're sitting there saying, "Whoa! I'm supposed to just be quiet and tolerate his forays into other-woman-land and let's-junk-it-all-and-sail-around-the-world-land or ditch-the-stationwagon-I-need-a-red-sports-car-land?
Well, yes. Of course you do have options here. You can rage and make demands that he clean up...
Assuming that you like your date, do you have sex on the first date?
Yes
No
Quick Quiz
What city in the US requires all businesses to have working condom machines on the premises?
Chicago,IL
Seattle,WA
Miami,FL
Cambridge, MA
Dallas,TX
Strange Sex Laws
Mississippi: S&M is against the law. Specifically: "The depiction or description of flagellation or torture by or upon a person who is nude or clad i... More
Sexual Joke
A very good-looking man walks into a singles bar, gets a drink and has a seat. During the course of the evening he tries to chat up every single woman... More
Sex Quotable
You don't need to be straight to fight and die for your country. You just need to shoot straight. More Barry Goldwater
Your Eroticy
