It's his birthday or your anniversary, or the kids are at grandma's. You want it (that "it") to be really hot. Or maybe there's no special occasion. You're just looking to crank things up a few notches, to make your satisfying but predictable sex life, well, less predictable and more satisfying. But how? Where do you turn for advice? Who really knows how to make love interesting, fun, fresh?
Sure, you can get information from sex therapists and their manuals. But such advice tends toward the predictable — and sounds clinical. So we went to different kinds of experts — specialists in music, massage, lingerie, stripping — technical pros all, who know what really gets a guy going. Here's their advice: easy, inexpensive, and naughty.
Don't wait until night time to get things going. Arouse your husband's interest with a seductive call to his office in late afternoon. According to experienced 900-number workers, sexy talk requires a gentle, low voice. You also want to sound approachable as well as receptive to his desires. Try questions — "Do you want to make love tonight? Wouldn't you love to do it in the shower?" — anything you believe your mate will find titillating.
How to light his fire
If you're too embarrassed to be explicit, be flirty: "I want you to touch me like you did last night. I love it when you kiss me. I was thinking about you all day." Obviously you don't want to let the mundane into your conversation — "Oh, and honey, could you pick up some cat food on the way home?" — but do keep talking, even if it's just "aaah," "yes." "Silence makes the listener uncomfortable and spoils the mood," one operator explained.
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