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ElverGota

Posted On: 8/12/2006 2:43:29 AM

Oral sex on a first date or missionary position only?

Once you're in for sex in a first date, do you put all you money on it or should you play a more conservative role, start with the old missionary position and let her guide you through out her desires.
I think that if she is on for that on a first date that means she wants sex with you (or whoever) despertly and would like it as wild as humanly possible. If you deside not to handle the situation by the horn's she'll think you are a loser and there will be no second chance. Unfortunally I've been proved wrong twice, during a first date we went to her place and started kissing and all but then I tried to go downtown and she held my head up, then she said the whole thing was a bad idea. Another time she let me in but then when I ask for her turn she freaked out and dumped the whole thing. What da'fuck?!! I don't get it!!!
I need help on this.

14 Replies

chemicalman1

8/12/2006 7:23:27 AM

I'm gonna take my 25 now before the hijacking begins...lmfao

im just sayin

Leeuh, be gentle

missycrissy

8/12/2006 7:26:09 AM

damn

id never put out on a first date

or a second

damn i made my ex husband wait 4 months

but i guess im just old fashioned

wats wrong with just holding hands and kissing?

voska1991

8/12/2006 7:29:05 AM

Agree, unless it is cleary a one night stand you want to go slow.

Get to know each other, it is so much better afterwards.

stampy62

8/12/2006 7:57:52 AM

"Balls to the wall".

First date, every date.

nchockeyboy10

8/12/2006 10:36:30 AM

Dear Abby here,

I say Do not take it personal. It may not be you. She may have some stuff going on that you know nothing about it.

For instance, I met someone the other night at a local hole in the wall bar near my home (Great for avoiding the seasonal drunk driving campaign that they have going on here in Raleigh). Know the bar tenders and waitresses. Always have a good time in my joint. So I am flirting all night with my pals and this lady. Said I was going home to relax in my outdoor hot tub and the lady asks "Need company" Seemed like an wide open invite so I said "Hell yes". She smiled and drove us to my home (only about 90 second drive).

Got another bottle of wine out of the fridge and we got naked in my hot tub. Alcohol flowin', hands roaming and she just freaks out and says "I can't do this. I am rebounding". She gets out of tub , puts on clothes all wet and goes home.

All I could do is just sit back, enjoy my wine and laugh.

So do not sweat it. Just go with the flow.
NCHB

RyanLeeuh

8/12/2006 10:37:27 AM