I'm not one for doing a lot of posting but I do have a couple of questions to toss out to everyone.
1. What is your definition of Dominant, submissive and switch?
2. Who has the power in a D&S relationship?
3. Is it true that the leash has two ends? (Metaphorically speaking)
4. Can someone be Dominant or submissive and not know they are?
I know how I would answer these questions and as someone who is always learning, I'm interested in how others answer them, however briefly or lengthly the answers may be.
Ummm except I am not SURE what switch means--although I can prob figure it out...and I don't know if a leash would actually turn me on--I don't think so....so please forgive my prior post
Southern, there is ton of info. and opinions in the first Big Daddy Discusses post in this same BDSM & Related Topics area. D/s, switch etc... are talked about.
If you haven't already; do some reading,
peeps are less likely to keep rehashing responses when it was only a couple of weeks ago that they answered very similar questions.
"Yes, more"...
"No baby" ...
"Harder"...
"Slower"...
"Does that feel good?"...
"God, that feels good!"...
"Would you like me to...?"...
"Yes PLEASE"...
"Maybe later"...
"I think I'd like to..."
These are all things I've personally found helpful in navigating the Sexual Dimension. So much more like communication than a label is!
Besides, once you've put a label on, they can be awful hard to take off (sticky little suckers!).