Okay, I need some honest advice. Oh wow, guess I gotta tell y’all about what huh? Okay see, I suppose its about me being chicken. Lemme start at the beginin, see, I have always been a tomboy, grew up with all brothers, I am very competitive and could not stand not being able to do what they could, I play sports, I fix cars, I can do home repairs, I can drink with the best of ‘em, I can even pee standin up. I can even please women better than most men. My problem is, I don’t know how to be a girl, you know with guys, most think I would rather be with women and not men, hell most don’t even look twice (course, my roomie says if I would stop wearin sweats and big ole tees, do something with my hair and wear a little makeup they might). Ok, now for what started all this, see I gotta crush on this guy, and I was talking to a friend, and she told me I had to do something quick, cuz he’s a good guy and I will loose him iffin I don’t. Soooooooo…….. I am utterly clueless as to what to do????? Please, please don’t tell me to be myself, cuz Ima telling y’all that don’t work!!!!!!!!! Course it might help iffin I could e-mail, or call or something, but I cant do that, I was raised and believe that it’s the man’s job to make contact, men chase women not the other way round ya know?
Well, I dont think you give yourself enough credit T.......So you can fix cars, do home repairs etc....That doesnt mean you are any less a woman...So you grew up a tomboy...Whats ur point??...............You can still do things guys do and still be a woman...Unless ya had a sex change..lmao............Try doin what ur roomy said...Start wearin makeup and more girly cloths more often and that alone will help ya feel more like a woman, or should anyway...I'm not sayin wear dresses or things like that unless ya wanna but you can still do those things and not change who you are inside....Thats where it counts most....NOT OUTWARD APPEARANCES....
And this is 2006 sweety.....Women can and often do make the first move sometimes to initiate contact someone they are attracted to....THIS AINT 1950 YA KNOW....That shits gone forever..Yeah, some of those old fashioned ideals are great to have and instill in our kids, but they dont work too well in these days and times unfortunately....People tend to end up lonely and miserable if they do, unless they can learn to find a way to incorporate those ideals into the ways of today and find a happy medium
You are all woman with tomboy mixed in and there isnt anything wrong with that at all....You just need to learn to combine the 2 aspects of you to where you feel comfortable and can still be Traci
Don't try to change. If he like you, he likes you for who you are not what you think you should be. If you change, you will either chase him away or it will blow up later.
This is just thoughts from an old codger.
I have to agree T. You are who you are and either people like you for that or they don't. I don't think you should change who you are just to snag some guy. I honestly think there is someone out there for each of us and there is someone out there who has been waiting for someone like you...I just know it! If you want to be more feminine because you think you'll feel better or because you're ready to make a change, then go for it, but don't do it with the hopes of impressing some guy. He should get the real you, not the person you're trying to be because you think that's what you should do. We all love ya the way you are!
Little T, I think that u're all woman and to be honest I like the fact u know how to do certain things.. it adds to the conversations.
The great thing about internet I have found is that I get to know an individual but not necessarily right away about their looks. Honestly, u sound sexy, sweet, tender and very much like a lady. So I am actually amazed that u know how to do those types of jobs...
I have a question for you... u're a single mom hence the need to be able to do certain task that use to be so called considered a man's job... I'm a single dad... guess what I can do now.. I can cook, do laundry, sew, iron, clean.. *more than just taking out the trash too*... I have learned how to play some of my daughter's most outlandish games ... One in particular a friend *she did it on purpose* gave my daughter when she was 3 or 4... Pretty Princesses... in which the object of the game is to see who wins the most jewlrey...
now mind.. my little one only has me to play these games with... Oh boy.. must admit was so glad when she was older so we didn't have to play that one anymore LOL LOL LOL LOL... I am known to have had tea parties w/ my little princesses and an occasional doll party *sssssshhhhhhh, please don't tell my buds... so unmanly LOL LOL LOL LOL... But u know what... In all that, seeing her laugh and smile never seem to dampen nor make me feel less of a man.
So now with that said, don't u feel less of a woman just cause u don't do or do certain things that most women do. Dress up if it makes u feel good but primarily be urself... that is what made me like u in the first place. SO now woman.. go ask that man out for some food... or now days get a business card and hand to him...
U're a winner Little T and I'm glad to have met ur acquaintance.
NO JOKES Fellas... U Single Dads w/ Daughters know what i'm talking about..
no wait, hold on, I know I cant change me, just a little tweakin is all Ima lookin for, a way to be able to start......to let him know, ya know how I start it all. Musta typed 10 e-mails last night and deleted every one, cuz they just didnt look right, too forward, to shy, to silly, to girly, not girly enough ya know? I know there is no 'set in stone' answer I just thought maybe y'all could give suggestions is all.
and Chem, ummmmmmm I know its not the '50s but maybe it should be!
ya know thats too funny Hard, cuz I get told what to wear all the damn time! The other night my rommie says " wear somethin that fits, please, and let your hair down for me" I did it too, ewwwwww, I hate doin my hair, but folks tell me I clean up kinda nice, it always freaks them out when I do
Oh...and BTW Hard.....you're father of the year in my book.....nothing sexier or more masculine than to see a man have a tea party with his little girls....at least in my book.
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