Porn Star Interviews with Ask Alexis

Attitude is like charisma; you either have it or you don’t.  This week’s featured entertainer, Lexi the Erotic Neighbor, has got them both in spades.  If you’re looking for a silicon beauty queen to cow-tow to your adolescent stereotypes, you best look elsewhere.  This luscious Leo is the poster child of the 21^st Century woman: beautiful, intelligent, creative, and at the forefront of the neo-sexual revolution.

Alexis: The bio on your site doesn’t mention much about your early years and adolescence.  If you don’t mind, please tell us a little bit about your life growing up.  Were you close with your family?  What were you like as a child?

Lexi: I grew up in an upper-middle-class environment.  I am the youngest of four children and, being the youngest, I was basically the spoiled brat of the family. I usually always got what I wanted.  I was told that when I was about five, I would take my clothes off and parade around my house naked - especially when my parents had company over.  I guess I enjoyed being an exhibitionist even back then.  (Laughing)  I have always been the wild one in the family; pushing the boundaries, challenging authority, and rebelling against pretty much everything.  I think back to my teenage years and it makes me laugh.  I went through a lot of funky phases, just like any other teenager goes through.  High school, for me, was like one big, long acid trip…literally.  (Laughing)  But despite our differences, I am very fortunate to have such a great family.   We’re all still very close with to this very day.  Overall, I’d have to say that growing up was good.

Alexis: You mentioned that you left New York for Florida at the age of nineteen because you found yourself “exceedingly scrutinized, controlled, and inhibited.”  Can you be more specific and share with us exactly what was going on in your life at that time?  Why did you pick the Sunshine State?

Lexi: After I graduated high school, I felt myself needing a change.  I was sick and tired of being controlled by my parents.  As loving and nurturing as they were, they were also very strict with me; like with my curfew, and clothes, etc.  I felt judged by everyone around me because I couldn’t evolve into the person I wanted to be.  If I tried to be more sexual, I was either scrutinized or labeled.  Basically, if I wanted to do anything outside of the norm, it was frowned upon.  This was obviously inhibiting me from being who I really was.  I moved to Florida because that’s where one of my aunts lived, and every year we would vacation down there while I was growing up.  During that time, I fell in love with the weather and the laid back environment.  It seemed like the perfect place to start over.

Alexis: After you moved down South, you enrolled in a few college courses, worked a low-paying job, and basically struggled to get by.  Shortly thereafter, you decided to drop out of school and get a fulltime gig working with computers.  You don’t seem like the typical PC geek, what drew you into the world of IT?

Lexi: Drop out…?  I prefer to use the term ‘parted ways’.  (Laughing)  Computers were always an interest of mine, even back in high school.  I went to a trade school for computer design and just continued with it from there.

Alexis: It wasn’t long before your social life blossomed and you met the love of your life, Alberto.  Could you tell us about how the two of you hooked up?

Lexi: I met him at a tanning salon and right away there was an immediate attraction between us.  We bullshitted for awhile and then, about a week later, I bumped into him again and he asked me if I wanted to get together sometime. The rest, as they say, is history.

Alexis: One of the anecdotes I really enjoyed reading in your bio was how you and Alberto ended up in your first threesome.  Would you mind repeating the story for our members?

Lexi: Wow, that was some night.  Not only was that my first threesome, but also my first girl-on-girl kiss.  You can get the detailed version of this story by reading the bio on my site, but in short, my boyfriend and I went out with a really hot friend of ours, who was staying with us at the time.  We all had lots and lots of alcohol.  Everyone was being very flirty; partying our asses off, and the next thing I know, I was kissing her.  Later on, we went back to our place, clothes started flying off, and we all fucked like animals. (Laughing)

Alexis: This is a question I frequently ask adult entertainers because it is such a dilemma for most of the general public.  How can the average couple overcome jealousy issues enough to enjoy an open relationship?  Do you think swinging is for everyone or do you have to be with the right person?

Lexi: Those are both very good questions.  No, I don’t think swinging is for everyone.  As far as the jealousy issue, in my opinion, both people need to be secure with themselves and with their relationship.  Alberto and I are very much in love and trust one another implicitly.  We look at swinging as something sexually exciting and erotic.  When we swing, there is no intimacy or emotions involved; it is strictly fucking plain and simple.  We also have set rules and guidelines that we have adhered to from day one.  For example, I will never kiss another man and he will never kiss another woman.  Certain things are important to us and we keep them only to ourselves.

Alexis: After you and Alberto started in on your swinging lifestyle, you began performing as a dancer and a model.  What drew you in front of the camera? Why do you think of it as “the perfect medium to express your true sexual feelings?”

Lexi: That’s simple: I love to be the center of attention.  I also love dressing up; being sexy; getting naked; experimenting in my sexuality.  I guess I just I love it all!  (Laughing)

Alexis: You mentioned on your site that you love watching porn films.  Who are some of your favorite performers?  Is there anyone in particular that you would like to work with?

Lexi: You’re damn right, I love watching pornos; it is a huge turn-on for me.  As far as my favorite pornstar goes, I got two words for you: Janine Lindemulder  (With A Devious Grin)  In my book, it doesn’t get any better.  I would love to lick every inch of her body!!  But, to be honest with you, she is probably one of the only girls that I would feel completely intimidated by.  I wouldn’t want to just work with her on a professional level though. This is someone that I would want to whisk away to my bedroom and keep all for myself.  (Laughing)  If she ever reads this, she’s going to think that I am some kind of crazy, obsessed fan…which I actually am.  (Laughing)

Alexis: After your modeling career began to snowball, you were offered the opportunity to work as a mainstream contract model.  Many people would jump at the chance.  Why did you turn them down?

Lexi: Because I had no interest in it.  As a contract model, you’re fucking so and so on such and such date.  Where’s the excitement in that?  Hey, if that’s your thing, go for it.  But it’s just not for me.  Everything I do is real, spontaneous, and on my own terms.  That’s what excites me and that’s who I am.

Alexis: You launched your site in 2001 and it quickly became one of the largest true amateur sites on the Internet.  What made you decide to take your sex life online?

Lexi: I used to do a lot of photo shoots for magazines and websites.  Based on the amount of money there were paying me, I realized it was obviously a very lucrative business.  So I figured, what the hell? I love the attention; I love being in front of the camera; and I have a wild sex life anyway.  Why not get paid for it?

Alexis: From the numerous entries in your online journal, it is obvious that you have a wonderful relationship with your members; although it does seem like they occasionally come up with some pretty wacky requests.  What is the strangest thing you have ever been asked to perform sexually?  Did you do it?

Lexi: Yes, I have a wonderful time with my members; many of them have been with me since the first week I put my site up.  I would have to say that the strangest request I have received was to make a custom video where I was to engage in a mad scientist lab experiment.  They wanted me to drink this potion and it was supposed to turn me into some sort of sex-crazed alien.  It just got weirder from there, and, no, I didn’t do it.

Alexis: With so many players in the adult amateur market, what separates your site from the rest of the pack?

Lexi: I could sit here and say that my site has this and my site has that, but the bottom line is, everyone has their own personal preference.  Someone may like me over the next girl and vice versa.  I also think it has a lot more to do with each individual girl’s character and personality; I don’t believe a surfer is basing his or her opinion solely on a particular girl’s appearance - although that obviously comes into play.

Alexis: You list Many Lives, Many Masters as your favorite book.  This controversial tome, written by Dr. Brian Weiss, centers around the theory of reincarnation.  I was therefore surprised to see you end your bio with the line, “Life is too short to be inhibited; you only live once!”  This begs the question, do you actually believe in reincarnation?

Lexi: Absolutely, I believe in reincarnation.  Even before I read that book, I believed in the theories associated with Kabbalism and that there are old and new souls.  I personally think I am a fairly new soul and, as hard as it is for me to admit, I feel that I have a lot more learning and experiencing to do.  Of course, I’m not referring to my sexual life.  (Laughing)  As far as my quote in my bio, I am only going to be ‘Lexi’ once, and I believe that we should make the most out of each life we live.

Alexis: This is where we end the interview with a sexual parody of James Lipton’s famous questionnaire.  Lexi, what is your favorite sexual act?

Lexi: It all depends on my mood.  Sometimes I prefer to be romantic and alone with my boyfriend and other times I love to be in the middle of a crazy sex party.

Alexis: What is your least favorite sexual act?

Lexi: I don’t really have one.  So far, I haven’t experienced anything that I didn’t like.

Alexis: What turns you on, sexually?

Lexi: A lot of things turn me on sexually, but, again, everything is dependent on my mood.  I love all the typical girly stuff: foreplay, romance, and passionate kisses.  Then I have my wild side: threesomes, porn films, facials, and fucking a girl with a strap-on.  This may sound funny to you, but I also have a thing for low-hanging clean-shaven balls.  (Laughing)

Alexis: What turns you off, sexually?

Lexi: Gangbangs, rushed foreplay, passionless sex, having my ears licked, a woman who acts as hot as she is in a pretentious way, and narrow-minded people.  I also hate men who are weasels; like the ones who try to insult my intelligence.  They come up to me and ask,”Does your boyfriend really know how lucky he is to have you?”  Then there are the ones that like to brag about themselves or their bank accounts.  As if I cant see right through them.  (Laughing)

Alexis: What is your wildest sexual fantasy?

Lexi: I don’t know if it’s a real wild fantasy; it’s actually more of a selfish one.  I would like to be lying down while having my body ravished by a bunch of hot women and men.  They would all be making me orgasm like crazy and I would not have to reciprocate to anyone.  (Laughing)

Alexis: Is there any sexual act that you would not like to participate in?

Lexi: Again, gangbangs or any sick shit.

Alexis: Finally, if a true heavenly orgasm exists, what do you say when you arrive at the Perfect State?

Lexi: OH MY FUCKING GOD!!!!

We’d like to thank Lexi for giving us a backstage tour of her wild and wonderful sex life.  If you enjoyed the content she was gracious enough to provide, we encourage you to logon to her website www.eroticneighbor.com.  With over 20,000 photos, tons of videos, and daily updates from Lexi herself, it’s setting the bar for what all amateur sex sites should be.

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